Dear Shareese, First thank you so much for reading, but thank you most of all for sharing a piece of your experience. I should let you know that I am not American, nor do I live in the USA (never have). I live in Canada, so I can’t say that I know in a real way what the political climate is like there, nor what sorts of tensions exist. I can try to listen and try to understand, but I won’t pretend to *actually* know.

I am absolutely so sorry to hear of your struggles, it is completely unacceptable that bringing a life into this world is fraught with such questions and concerns, life should be beautiful and bountiful and free for all. I am sorry this is something you must contend with. My hope for you is that if you decide to share your views, your experience, your voice, that others will listen, really listen. Every voice, even those we disagree with, has value — even if that value is simple to educate ourselves about the views held by our foe. (For clarity, I do not see you as a foe). Your voice, as someone who feels unwelcome, “disposable” as you say, is a voice that we all need to listen to. When I say engage in my post, I also mean to imply that a large group of people needs to start listening and do less talking. I hope that you will find a welcome space to share, as I think that will help bring us all collectively to a better place. We must listen to the voices of those who feel (and are) oppressed. Sending love to you and I am open ears. xo, Danielle